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What I Know About Becoming a Foster Parent

10/15/2018

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Nine months. That’s approximately how long it takes for a baby to fully develop inside its mother’s womb. It’s also the time it took Alex and I to complete all the requirements and get our application for foster care licensing submitted to the state. The irony of the timing wasn’t lost on me as I signed my name to the paper today.

There are so many unknowns about this process. We don’t know exactly when our application will be approved. Possibly in the next couple of weeks. We don’t know who God has chosen for us to invite into our home and family, or when He’ll send them, or how difficult the adjustment will be. We don’t know if we’ll be called to minister to a child’s needs for a short time or, perhaps, forever. As I held the pen to sign the application, fear of the unknown brought worry. But I am reminded of some things I do know.

I know God has called us to this. I’ve known it for a very long time. I know that every life is precious, and there is a child that needs my family to teach them they are a valuable creation of Almighty God. I know that providing a child with a safe and loving environment will have a positive impact on future generations. I know a foster child will mean added stress, but I also know God’s grace is sufficient. I know God’s love is a free gift that replenishes in my heart as I share it with others, and it’s His will for us not to be stingy with it.

We didn't go through the process of the last nine months because we enjoyed it, but I know God has used the "gestational period" of foster care licensing to prepare our hearts for His purpose.
I’m sure there will be many more revelations as the plan unfolds. For now, I'll hold onto these truths as we continue to wait.
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Susan David
10/16/2018 10:45:52 am

Praying for you as you approach the final hurdle! Your words are encouraging and uplifting.

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Heather
10/18/2018 02:58:43 pm

Thank you, Susan! You’ve been an encouragement to us.

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Diane Virginia Cunio link
10/16/2018 05:47:04 pm

I like your observation, Heather, about the time it took to fill out the sdopadop application, to the gestation time if a baby. That's precious. I pray God will finish what has begun, and that you get to add to your family soon, this child.

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Heather
10/18/2018 02:59:07 pm

Thank you!

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